MISSIONSTATEMENT

Q: How do you deal with Father’s Day?

It used to feel pretty heavy, since the world seems to spotlight dads everywhere that day. Over time, though, I reframed it. Instead of focusing on what I lack, I honor the people who’ve stepped into my life with guidance and care—whether that’s my mom, relatives, or mentors. For me, Father’s Day has become less about absence and more about gratitude.

Q: What advice would you give to another teen who feels alone because of this?

The worst thing you can do is isolate yourself in silence. Speak up—whether it’s to a friend, a trusted adult, or even through writing—because putting words to what you feel lessens the weight. And remind yourself: your identity is not diminished because of who’s missing. You still hold the power to define your own story, and that story can be one of resilience, strength, and even triumph.

Q: Do you ever feel angry or sad about it?

Absolutely. I think it’s only human to experience those emotions, and I don’t shy away from them. But I also refuse to let them consume me. When I feel anger or sadness, I try to channel that energy into something constructive—whether it’s athletics, writing, or personal goals. In a way, those emotions have become a kind of fuel; they remind me of the obstacles I’ve faced, but also of the strength I’ve cultivated in navigating them.